As everyone gets ready to spend their last weekend of summer fun, I wanted to share something quick to read, but powerful…just like words. Words lead to actions and actions become habits. Here’s seven words that makes everyone happy. I hope you use them often so you will have positive actions. This is your opportunity to change your habits while making everyone feel good.
* I love you
These three words can be used among close friends and family. They need to be shared from the heart and not as a cliché’. Otherwise, it won’t have the same impact. The words, “I love you” make individuals feel special, possibly desired, and definitely accepted.
These 3 words used together in this phrase are powerful. They provide affirmation letting people know it’s okay to mess up and be themselves without losing a friend. They make the recipient more confident and safe. The more these words are used, the more powerful they become. It is three words that can never be overused if coming from the heart.
Hearing the words “I love you” in a heated discussion immediately takes off the edge like cough syrup dissipates a tickle.
*I’m sorry
These two words are often difficult to give, but all love to hear them. These words are equally powerful. It takes courage that has to be mustered by the giver. But, as the words are delivered, relief and anxiety fall away. They are free, no longer bound by anger or irritation from an offense, whether known or not.
For the recipient, anxiety also melts as quickly as an ice-cube on a hot, sunny day.
Not only do these words give a fresh start for both parties, but the bond created grows stronger between them. Rising above hurt and anger to speak such words means a great deal making the recipient feel victorious, much like winning an award. No gloating allowed though.
* Thank you
Many parents try to teach their child manners, which thank you is among one of the first. However, over time, using these words seem less and less important due to busy lifestyles.
What is so special about saying “Thank you?” I’m glad you asked. Hearing these appreciative words affirms a person has done something right, making them willing to try it again. These words encourage. And what does encouragement do? It makes you feel good. And if you make someone feel good, how does that make you feel? Good, of course. That’s why saying “thank you” is a win-win. Both individuals feel good – one for doing right, and the other for making someone feel good. Two more powerful words.
Let’s focus on increasing the amount of times we use these 7 powerful words with our spouses, family, friends, and co-workers (when applicable). In a world of growing evil, wouldn’t it be a blessing to have more people feeling good about themselves? The POWER is in your MOUTH!
How do these words make you feel?
How often do you use them?
“I LOVE YOU, Jennifer.”
Today is our middle child’s birthday.
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YES & AMEN!!
Great post Jeana. Flowery words are like real flowers, they dry up and disintegrate shortly. Sincereity is so key, if we want to make a difference.